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Bernie Kosar, Father Of Porn Actress, Feels ‘Embarrassed’ For The Parents Of The Rams’ Wide Receivers


lexxi silver twitterFormer NFL quarterback and noted sad sack Bernie Kosar is getting a ton of well-deserved shit for the way he ragged on the Rams during their preseason matchup with the Browns. Rams coach Jeff Fisher is pissed, for one. What we found most interesting wasn’t just that Bernie was denouncing the Rams skill players in their first preseason game, but the way he went about doing it.

From St. Louis Today:

Rams wide receivers dropped three catchable balls in the first half, and Kosar, who was color analyst, was highly critical each time. At one point, he called the Rams’ receivers “horrible.” Play-by-play man Jim Donovan then playfully chided Kosar, saying the receivers’ parents could be watching. Kosar replied by saying he’d “be embarrassed” if he was one of their parents.

“I’m checking through the ‘itinerary’ of coaches to see who the receivers coach is, to make sure I don’t know who the guy is because he’s not doing very good either,” Kosar said.

The Rams’ wide receivers coach is the well-respected Ray Sherman, a veteran of 24 years as an NFL assistant coach.

Kosar was also highly critical of backup QB Kellen Clemens, saying “I can’t stand watching him play” and “Bless me Father for I have sinned, I have to watch him the whole fourth quarter.”

So, Bernie, you’d be embarrassed if your son dropped a pass while playing in the National Football League? That’s incredibly ironic, considering your own daughter’s line of work appears to be getting penises dropped into her. On film, though, so it’s classy and stuff.

As Busted Coverage points out, Lexxi Silver — who, we should note, hasn’t released a video since 2011 — appears to be Kosar’s daughter. As we all know, a father’s only job is to keep their daughters off the pole. So how does Kosar feel about having failed at that? Should we all sit around watching and critiquing the way she has sex?

Since we would never be able to post photos from Lexxi’s hardcore and totally NSFW porn site, let’s see what she gets up to on Twitter. Unsurprisingly, these too are NSFW:

Which was followed by:

(*Note: Her tweets are incredibly repetitive and boring, so perhaps some social media company is handling her “Twitter presence.” In which case, we want to meet the intern who wrote “Want a guy to pummel my ass,” looked it over, deemed it sufficient and sent it out into the universe.)

Hey, we rag on people all the time, but certainly not for how they play after months off in a meaningless preseason game. Plus, our daughters don’t fuck on film for money, so we must be doing something right. Tone it down, Bernie, and keep things in perspective.

Photo via @lexxisilver


  • Art

    So…why should Kosar be embarrassed that his daughter went into pornography? Is there something wrong with that?

  • THIS GUY

    PROSTITUTION WITH A CAMERA, NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT!

  • Manna

    Art obviously doesn’t have a daughter

  • Manna

    There’s nothing wrong pornography it’s just, like the article says, as a father your job is to keep your daughter out of porn or strip clubs…How do you not get that?? lol

  • iISsupahsmrt

    Unfortunately, Bernie wasn’t wrong. The Rams ARE terrible in the receiving corps.

  • Betty Humpter

    There’s no way those tweets are for real. Sounds like a lonely man wrote them if you ask me.

  • fischers a fool

    Who the heck is this hack of a writer? Bernie was on point, yet y’all are butt hurt cause you got whooped by the browns. You should be embarrassed, but you should also direct your anger to your potodil coach rather than the guy who pointed out how pathetic your team was.

  • Erick Goldenscheinhassmalldick

    Bernie was just saying what was on ALL our minds. The Rams fucken blow. Why bring personal stuff like his daughter into a football conversation? You obviously couldn’t find a good way to defend the Rams for being shitty. You’re a poor excuse for a writer.

  • Eric Goldschein Bitch

    Eric Goldschein is the biggest douchebag in the entire world

  • Anonymous

    Wow, can’t believe this is what our Nation has become!!! Everyone’s upset that some guy who gets PAID to attempt and entertain the audience drops a little TRUTH in the mix and the focus is on HIM??? Grow-up people!!!!! I’d like to hear what Sam Bradford has to say!!!!!

  • comrade_cylon

    This article is sexist crap. She is an adult and can do what she wants. What she does as an adult in charge of her own life has nothing at all to do with her father. Grow up Eric Goldschein and stop being the school bully that says “OH YEAH?? WELL… YOU’RE DUMB SO THERE”.

  • breakingbad

    The point the author was trying to make was that Kosar said that he’d be embarrassed if he was one of the parents of the Rams players while at the same time having a child of his own that is in a profession that people would say “Their parents should be ashamed and I’d be embarrassed if it was my kid.” I don’t think he was trying to just bring up the porn because he’s butt hurt about the Rams being terrible.

  • Eric Goldschein

    Hello. I tried to respond to your comment by email, but it appears “ericgoldscheinisabitch@bitch.com” isn’t a real address. Why don’t you post your real contact information? It seems like you should stand behind those words. Thanks for reading.

  • Arty

    Bernie’s commentary is what is needed, most commentators won’t ever say anything critical or controversial and thus are boring as hell, finally someone calls it like he sees it and you get all self-righteous about it and pull this woman who may not even be related into this. Bernie should never apologize for what he said.

  • Arty

    Bernie’s commentary is what is needed, most commentators won’t ever say anything critical or controversial and thus are boring as hell, finally someone calls it like he sees it and you get all self-righteous about it and pull this woman who may not even be related into this. Bernie should never apologize for what he said.

  • Kurt Boyer

    Bravo to this girl for not being ashamed of her sexuality. I would be ashamed if my kid grew up to be a cynical hack sportswriter.

  • Anonymous

    The comparison isn’t quite right. Kosar has no need to feel guilty his daughter’s a porn star, only if she’s a lousy porn star. Case in point, does she drop as many balls as the Ram’s receivers?

  • disgusting

    This is some nice slut shaming you’ve got going on here, Sports Grid! Kosar should feel like a complete failure for letting his grown adult daughter do something as awful as porn! Sex is nasty!

    I hope you guys write an article about how black QBs will never be as successful as white QBs because they’re not as smart soon! You’ll have me as a fan for life!!

  • Anonymous

    Children raise children, trash raises trash muhfuhhhhhhhhhh
    what people do fo money muhfuhhhhhhhs
    dat muhfuhhhhhhhh must be really proud or on crack muhfuhhhhhhs

  • JC

    Hey Goldstein, Goldschitt or what ever your lack of physical talent name is. By writing this article you have proven to be a bigger POS than Kosar will ever be. Talking about being embarrassed, go to Miami Beach and stand in line behind a little old women arguing about being shortchange 3 cents. You should be embarrassed of your whole race rather than just a family member.

  • Get Real, People!

    How incredibly screwed up is this country when people flock to the
    comments section to condemn someone for simply pointing out how ironic
    it is that someone who’s daughter is a porn star is saying that the
    parents of pro-football players should be embarrassed about their kids.

    Anyone who thinks that you should be proud of your daughter for doing porn, but embarrassed for your son because he’s on the bubble of making an NFL roster doesn’t deserve to have kids.

    Person #1: “Hey, what does your son do?”
    Person #2: “He’s professional football player trying out with the St. Louis Rams”
    #1: “Wow, that’s great! He must have worked really hard to get to where he is. You should be proud!”
    #2: “He actually probably won’t make the team. It’s so embarrassing.”

    VS.

    Person #1: “Hey, what does your daughter do?”
    Person #2: “She’s a hard-core porn actress.”
    #1: “Oh yeah! I thought that sl*t that was on Starz last night looked familiar! She has your jawline!”
    #2: “Thanks. She’s boned lots of dudes to get to where she is. I’m so proud.”

    No….. not ironic at all.

  • warren

    With what, a shotgun?She is over 18 he has no more control over her–how do you not get that??lololololool infinity

  • Anonymous

    Art has to lose his virginity to have a possibility of having a daughter.

  • Dirk

    Attempt at controversial post fail. Nothing else to see here…

  • Sean McGuinness

    What’s lost in this are that:
    1. Bernie knows more about football than the majority of the coaches in the NFL
    2. Bernie is just as critical of the Browns.
    3. Eric Goldschein is a bitter sad sack that can’t get a job as a sportswriter for a respected mag/newspaper.

  • tony

    you obviously have no children or soul, either way knowing your daughters only skill set is a bj and getting her vag and ass blasted with dicks, you should be the last one telling someone their child is a disappointment. lets see who has a better more successful life a pro football player who probably has a college degree or some slut that got hired off craigslist to spread her legs? no one is saying theres anything wrong with porn, you’re just a disappointment to your family if thats all you could figure out to do with your life.

  • George

    It appears that Bernie isn’t the only “low life”, there was no need for this article absolutely none. An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind, humans are the truly worse than animals sometimes.

  • TheRealTomByron

    I have actually pummeled her ass!

  • qwqw

    You’ve obviously never followed a porn star on twitter. Pure gold, some of those tweets….

  • Anonymous

    And also why are people bitching about her. Bernie is the one at fault according to the article. Maybe we should critique how she has sex, Really ??? She is old enough. If she were 70 would it matter then or not ??? Her life she has to live it, not the people bitchng or Bernie can say anything to stop her. They should stick to ranting on Bernie and him alone because it makes people seem like teenagers who heard the word vagina for the first time.

  • justjoseph

    Duuude….YES, as a matter of fact there IS something wrong with that. Pornstars, strippers, “sex workers”, etc. usually leave the biz broke, addicted, cynical, usually with kids and their experience in porn industry turns them into the sort of people no one ever wants for a friend or anything else and they pretty much never get over that. It’s total life ruination, and it has NOTHING to do with the morality of nudity or anything like that, and no one knows that better than the pornographers, but they keep on ruining lives and using people for money. If your daughter winds up on the pole, you fucked up, and it’s too late to do anything, for she is truly bound to be society’s throwaway.

  • Aaron Tom

    Your last sentence proves your true feelings, in which you say there’s nothing wrong with porn, yet you’re a “disappointment” if you do it. While I agree that it’s probably not the best career choice, I can see why women do it: It’s easy money. The tops get thousands per scene, but even the up-and-cummers (terrible pun intended) make $500 or so, per scene. So they can do one scene a week, and at least have a living wage, with just a modicum of effort.

    And I also take offense to people that blame the parents’ because their daughters went into porn (though I rarely hear the argument that the men in porn are also huge disappointments to their families…) because the women are old enough to make up their own minds. A lot of it is the easy money and lifestyle where they’re fawned over by guys everywhere…for some women, that’s all they want, and this job definitely gives it to them.

    So I get the point of the article, and Kosar’s comments were incredibly idiotic, but I think it’s low to bring his daughter’s chosen profession into it, as if he’s somehow responsible for bringing her into it. And since she hasn’t made a movie since 2011, it sounds like she’s probably moved on and these are just skeletons in the closet.

    Lastly, I find it ironic that you chastise women for being whores, when you’ve got millions of pages of scantily-clad wannabe hookers plastered all over this site.

    I’m going back to bed.

  • Aaron Tom

    I will second it, so feel free to contact me with any concerns. Thank you.

  • Aaron Tom

    “usually leave the biz broke, addicted, cynical, usually with kids and
    their experience in [the] industry turns them into the sort of people no
    one ever wants for a friend or anything else and they pretty much never
    get over that.”

    You’ve also just described a lot of Hollywood actors/actresses, musicians, and athletes. Are those poor career choices?

  • Randy Kaplan

    Hey, I like porn as much as the next guy, but there’s a difference between “not being ashamed of one’s sexuality” – undoubtedly a good thing, whether you are a pornstar or a priest – and cynically exploiting and degrading your dignity and your sexuality, which is a common habit of people in and retired from the porn biz, and not a good thing.

    Really? You would be more ashamed of a hack sportswriter for a kid than a pornstar? Glad you weren’t my sister’s dad!

  • Randy Kaplan

    I normally wouldn’t take that guy’s word for it, but now I’m pretty well convinced, Mr. Goldschein, you indeed are one of the biggest douchebags in the entire world. You should be eternally grateful for the existence of Keith Olbermann and Barack Obama, or else there might not be any doubt whatsoever that you are in fact the biggest d-bag.

    And you can reach me at jackpoint_94401@yahoo.com, you douche.

  • Ricardo Queso

    Pwned.

  • Eric Goldschein

    Based on that gem of a comment, I’m sure sending you an email explaining why I’m so totally not a douchebag would be a great use of my time. Please hold your breath until I do so, Randy.

  • Randy Kaplan

    No need, I get your point. You’re totally not the douchebag; you’re the stinky c-nt. Good to know, you don’t even have to remember, just sniff and we can whiff your stench a time zone away.

  • Randy Kaplan

    -

  • Randy Kaplan

    And you should be used to this, too, Goldschein, since you’re not worthy of the leagues you try to comment on. You’re out of MY league, too, so you should just stop trying.

  • Rang Dipkin

    And to think, all that time I spent jerking it to ESPN videos of Kosar I could have been doing it to videos of his daughter!

    Thanks for bringing it my attention Mr. Goldschein, I know what I’m gonna be doing for the next 30-45 seconds…

  • Joe

    Aaron, I will just paste what Tony wrote so you can reread it again:

    “you obviously have no children or soul, either way knowing your daughters only skill set is a bj and getting her vag and ass blasted with dicks, you should be the last one telling someone their child is a disappointment. lets see who has a better more successful life a pro football player who probably has a college degree or some slut that got hired off craigslist to spread her legs? no one is saying theres anything wrong with porn, you’re just a disappointment to your family if thats all you could figure out to do with your life.”

    Then I will add that you are probably in the porn industry. If you did not grow up in a third world country and you choose to go into porn, it’s your parent’s fault. I can go into parenting theories and psychology but based on your reply, you wouldn’t understand anyways. Night night.

  • Aaron Tom

    It’s 4:20 p.m. Why would I be in bed?

  • Anonymous

    how do you think Billy Ray Cyrus feels?

  • Wes

    If a girl is properly raised she she will never become a whore..I blame awful parenting that comes from abuse as a young person growing up most times.Makes me ill when perverts on here think this is ok.

  • Anonymous

    OK, now can the writer please explain the connection here.

    Fair is fair, a legit publication like NJ.com/The Star-Ledger does so, so can you.

  • russilini

    great…you have beef with kosar and drag his daughter into it…how low

  • MuhammedAllah

    Most young women do it for money or to escape a brutal childhood. I assume Ms. Silver, I mean Kozar had problems with neither of these? She couldnt have gotten into the theatre?

  • Anonymous

    Lots of people have daughters who are whores.

  • Jennifer

    What do you do for a living? Is that your only skill set? Aren’t most people good at more than one thing? Doesn’t more go into most career choices than “this is the only thing I know how to do”?

  • Jennifer

    So there’s nothing wrong with it, but no one should let their daughter do it? Sure, that makes sense.

    Pssst! If no one did porn, *you wouldn’t have any porn to watch.*

  • Jennifer

    “If you did not grow up in a third world country and you choose to go into porn, it’s your parent’s fault.” Because you aren’t an independant human? People do things their parents don’t approve of all the time. Believe or not, there are people who don’t want their kids playing college football! (And they have a bit of a point, when you look at the risk of serious injury.) Does that mean if their kids do it anyway they’ve “failed” as parents?

  • Anonymous

    Goldchain, typical liberal.

  • Anonymous

    Pornography has little to do with “sexuality.” It is to sex what McDonalds is to food. It’s about degrading our bodies with fake body parts and fake orgasms, teaching folks to have no respect for themselves — which is why we’ve seen the epidemic of idiots who have “sex tapes” out in the public. And here’s a newslflash: People in porn aren’t in it for the sex, just for the money.

  • Mark Sullivan

    My God… Eric Goldschein… Does your mother read your work?

  • Tamara Ritter

    Breaking news: Eric Goldschein just been elected A*Hole of the week

  • Said his name

    this guy !

  • DepthTested

    In fairness, the Ram receivers make good money while sucking and so does Bernie’s daughter. Oh, and Bernie, saw one of your daughter’s movies, let’s just say it reminded me of…The Drive.

  • Anonymous

    “I want a guy to pummel my ass” Hilarious!
    If that is in fact his daughter, then the next question is when did he begin molesting her?

  • Alyssa

    Jeez…. The slut shaming of this article is just simply astronomical.

  • Anonymous

    She sounds like such a nice girl!

  • NZ

    Apart from you being sexually repressed and puritanical about how you view human sexuality, what’s to be embarrassed about this again? But, way to go; pro sports athletes making stupid money for being modern gladiators might have their families’ feelings hurt of a commentator points out their ineptitude. That’s reason enough to pull out the “sex is bad!” card to try to win sympathy. I suppose if your typical audience lacks modern brainpower, you’ve got a great article here!

  • Lea Tapp

    Fathers do not control their adult children and if an adult woman wants to make porn, then it is nobodies business but her own.

  • Lea Tapp

    I bet you watch porn, but think that it is awful that women act in them and enjoy it. Hypocrite.

  • Lea Tapp

    Or maybe Aaron does not think that fathers own their adult daughters or that adult women liking sex and exhibition is a shameful thing.

    Aaron is correct.

  • Lea Tapp

    Scared of your own kid’s sexuality, huh? That must suck.

  • Lea Tapp

    Citation needed.
    PS, most football players don’t get rich, but their bodies and brains do get wrecked.

  • Nathan

    Wow. You football people really take the game seriously. Dude blasts a team and players (which in my limited experience seems to be a lot), and in response, you attack his personal life?

    Also, if you think he ‘failed’ as a parent, or she’s a bad person for doing porn, you’re still wrapped up in western civilization’s fear of sex and sexual women.

  • Nathan

    Oh, oh pick me! I’ll debate with you, Eric Goldschein. I don’t know shit about football and just happened to find this misogynistic turd of an article, and can debate you on the points of why it was stupid to write it!

  • Art Faucett

    he doesn’t get it because he’s retarded…Poor guy, someone get him some aid..

  • Sam

    Funny sort of post. But this isn’t really about irony. The article is actually attempting to show “hypocrisy”, or some sort of double standard, just as you said –

    “Anyone who thinks that you should be proud of your daughter for doing
    porn, but embarrassed for your son because he’s on the bubble of making
    an NFL roster doesn’t deserve to have kids.”

    But for your summary to be correct we’d have to believe Kosar was being literal when he said that some player’s parents should be “embarrassed”. That’s preposterous.

    On the other hand, we can see that the attack of Kosar by Goldschein was pretty serious, and personal.

    You may find a “lesson” here in “the responsibilities of parents”. Me. I
    see a harsh personal attack, and someone possibly finding an excuse to
    publish some salacious material. I think that assessment is behind some of the negative comments.

    here’s my take -

    Person #1: “Hey, what does your son do?”
    Person #2: “He’s a journalist covering sports, his work is posted on the internet”
    #1: “Wow, that’s great! He must have worked really hard to get to where he is. You should be proud!”
    #2: “Not so much. His last article was about the daughter of a broadcast commentator who made a porn film. He posted half a dozen of her offensive tweets, with links to view her film. It was all quite embarrassing.”

  • Ben Dover

    I dont condone pornography

    But shame on you Eric Goldschein for bringing Bernie’s daughter into this.

    Why dont you advise Lexxi to leave the industry instead of publicly shaming her.

  • http://www.obamasrealfather.com/ Frank Marshall Davis Jr.
  • RAYMOND MAURICE FREIHERR VAN P

    Simple solution — from now on Lexxi can do color commentary for the games, Bernie can pay for his sins by doing porn and Eric can write provocative tweats for Bernie’s Twitter account. Is everybody happy now?

  • Anonymous

    Why bring his daughter into it?

  • http://www.catwyp.com/ ColdHeartedPatriot

    “Plus, our daughters don’t fuck on film for money, so we must be doing something right.”

    So your daughters fuck on film for free then?

  • Manuel Noriega

    at least the male porn actors have to work for a living

  • Kurt Boyer

    Everything you’re saying is based on an arbitrary paradigm that you & others like you have invented. Not everyone in porn has a fake body or a fake sexuality, in fact a lot of people like “hardcore” or amateur porn b/c it displays people who aren’t perfect having a good time, as opposed to the airbrushed bodies & sex in Hollywood. You might as well say that rock & roll teaches people to have no respect because most rock stars are in it for the money, not the music. It’s technically true, but are there any records in YOUR collection that were made at least partially for the money? Have you ever eaten fast food?

    But some music fans seek out bands who aren’t sold out and do what they want to do regardless of record sales, just like we seek out actual honest/creative/sex-positive porn that isn’t marketed to cable TV or assholes. Sex (and music) are not nasty, but small-minded people definitely are.

  • Kurt Boyer

    Why do you like porn if porn is degrading?

  • Kurt Boyer

    (Randy, lazy minded and ignorant of the Socratic method, responds with a stupid flame and confuses the issue out of nervous habit.)

  • Spencer Jacobson

    You don’t even read what YOU yourself post?

    “I’m going back to bed”

    They were referring to YOUR post.

  • Spencer Jacobson

    Bernie is the one that brought the subject of being embarrassed as a parent. Everyone else is just point out that when your daughter spreads for strangers on film, you probably shouldn’t critique the parenting skills of others.

    Do you really not get that, or are you just being obtuse?

  • Jack Frink

    But Lexxi Silver is probably better at her job than the Rams receivers, so that logic doesn’t follow.

  • Aaron Tom

    His reply was posted 4 days later. I don’t hibernate. I was well rested by then.

  • Anonymous

    More successful than Daddy…

  • Randy Kaplan

    Boyer, I only engage in Socratic dialogues with people who display both the brains and the manners to make it worthwhile. You don’t qualify. But, if you insist, I’ll respond to your question. (If I flamed in reply previously, it has been deleted, I don’t recall it, and I’m probably not sorry for it anyway – point being that I don’t know which stupid flame to which you refer.) I like porn. Actually, I probably don’t like it as much as the next guy, but that was a rhetorical flourish to indicate that I wasn’t coming from a place of thinking that porn is some horrific sin. To the extent that I do like porn, it is much as you and vacuumation seem to both have said, even though you appeared to be arguing with each other. It’s a fast-food version of sex. Sometimes you WANT fast food, sometimes you are merely satisfied with it as the easy available alternative, and sometimes you have absolutely no desire for it and you want real food. As for porn being degrading, that isn’t exactly what I said. You were applauding pornstars for “not being ashamed of their sexuality” – as if they were doing something brave or important or that the great mass of people who you seem to think ARE ashamed of their sexuality need to have done on their behalf. That’s BS. As I said, it’s closer to the truth to say that pornstars are cynically exploiting and degrading their sexuality for the money, not making a statement about sexual shame or freedom. As you have noted, the result is low-grade but perfectly satisfactory for what it is entertainment – which I like well enough when in the mood.
    By way of information, I base my statements about the cynicism and degradation on my personal knowledge of hundreds and hundreds of pornstars. Here’s a few other things I can tell you from my experience. Porn would be very, very difficult to do, very emotionally hard to handle, if it weren’t for the sense of camaraderie and mutual regard that generally prevails on porn sets. In short, porn people, being in what might be thought of as one of the quintessential “people businesses,” tend to embody the cliche which is usually meaningless, but in their case is not inaccurate: they are “people persons.” Pornstars are nice. Not just to each other, they tend to be friendly, open, decent folks. Good, pleasant company. Second thing about pornstars: most of them might be nice, but most of them are also dumb as a bag of hammers. Yes, there is the occasional exception like Nina Hartley or Careena Collins – but the popular perception of porn as a career for people too dumb to do anything else is more or less on the mark. My implication is that pornstars, having little capacity for intelligent self-reflection, are as unaware of their true sexuality as they are of the Fed’s quantitative easing. It’s just another thing on the long list of things they just have never thought about. Did you ever wonder why so much porn is so mediocre? Why so many porn performers don’t seem to even perform, but barely go through the motions? Simple. If you have never really thought through your feelings about your sexuality, but instead launch into a career of having frequent sex for money, odds are that all sex is going to be to you is a paycheck. Call me crazy, but I call that cynical and degrading. If they knew what their own sexuality and sexual feelings were, they could act them out and be good porn performers. No one has any problem telling when a pornstar has something special – and it’s rarely their looks, it’s the quality of their sexual scenes and the levels of intensity they can communicate. Is it real? Most of the time, I say no, as do most pornstars in interviews. But so what? All that is asked is that they fake it well for the hour or two it takes to shoot the scene. Good enough for me. One reason for the popularity of MILF and mature porn is that more of the older performers know how to perform, compared to their younger counterparts. As I get older, the odds of me having sex with attractive girls in their teens and twenties, unless I pay for it, have dwindled to odds similar to winning the Super Lotto at the same instant that you score with Sofia Vergara. So you might think that guys like me would want to see the younger porn performers, at least to be able to fantasize. But when I can watch an older performer who sizzles instead? You can keep the newbies.
    As for my ridiculing your apparent comparative approval of porn work to hack sportswriting: both pursuits, I guess, are more or less low-grade entertainments, guilty pleasures, if you will. I am not aware of any significant negative impact the pursuit of hack sportswriting has on the writer, on sports, or on society at large. If there are some people who enjoy the work of a hack sportswriter, even just to enjoy disagreeing or jeering, then he’s doing his job. If it pays him, or if it satisfies his ego need to make ex cathedra proclamations (and, obviously, here I know whereof I speak), all the better. Porn has many negative impacts on the performers in particular. Believe me, I am much aware that the average female pornstar – often a high school dropout, rarely has worked at an actual job (“dancing” at a strip club is NOT a real job) and has no discernible qualifications for one – is not going to make the $60,000 that an average new performer who doesn’t want to work more than a couple times a week and has no ambition to be anything other than scene fodder can earn without any special effort. Is this good? Is she, are we, better off because she’s not on welfare but instead earning a decent living? If she can handle the emotional pressures and the health risks, sure SHE’S better off – as long as she can continue to work in porn, and then she’s got less than nothing. Not good. For those who are damaged, physically or emotionally, by their porn experience, not good. I think that the long-term negative emotional effects of having been a porn performer are generally exaggerated. If you heard about “studies” that claim that having been in porn leads to social or sexual pathology A, B, or C in x percent of porn performers – I guarantee you that the sampling methodology is flawed and that the results are hopelessly biased. By now, there’s been thousands and thousands of porn pros, and millions of eager and willing amateurs. There’s no epidemic of ANYTHING among those people that anyone can perceive. To the extent that porn coarsens society and makes degrading attitudes toward sex commonplace, we are all worse off because of porn, even when you factor in the entertainment value. We are now entering a third generation of porn. We are entering a second generation of American children whose views of sexuality are shaped almost completely by porn. Once upon a time, radical feminists used to like to throw around a phony statistic, that a quarter to a third of all American women had been victims of rape. While I don’t wish to minimize the seriousness or the extent of rape in the 1970s and 1980s period to which I refer, nor do I wish to minimize the social contribution of feminism in bringing issues of sexual abuse, violence, and harassment to the fore of public concerns and helping create positive changes, the fact of the matter is that this “statistic” simply wasn’t a fact. I think everyone’s definition of sexual abuse and sexual assault has correctly expanded in recent decades; we now understand that acts short of technical rape wreak great amounts of damage on innocent victims, and that the justice system, the health care system, the schools, and the social welfare agencies were all failing in their attempts to address all this – as well as the actual rape. But even with a broad definition, the quarter to a third claim for the number of female victims was wildly overstated.

    Not any more. By the broader but still fairly precisely narrowed definitions of sexual assault and rape, it wouldn’t surprise me one bit if over half of American women under the age of 30 have been raped. And most of them were raped by being coerced into early sexual experience by boys who learn about sex from porn and try to emulate it. We’ve long since learned that if you can’t freely and knowingly consent, you have been raped. Most girls now have had significant sexual experience by the age of 14 or so – and they are not even capable of informed consent at that age. I’m not talking about technical legal definitions of statutory rape, I’m talking about the simple commonsense fact that the overwhelming majority of girls of 14 aren’t capable of making sensible decisions about sex, and even fewer are capable of defending themselves and standing their ground without severe negative consequences. And the number of 14-year-old boys who are capable of restraining themselves and making a reasoned determination of whether or not they have received informed consent is minuscule. So, the girls are being raped – and parents do nothing about it, and, for the most part, uncontrolled access to porn by children far too young to view it as entertainment that they can separate from their own sexuality is responsible. And if you don’t think that the porn industry isn’t 100% aware of this, don’t care a bit, and are cynically exploiting it, you’re a fool.

  • Kurt Boyer

    On what knowledge of me do you base your opinion that I don’t have any brains & I’m a bad person?

    Try to keep the reply to less than 100,000 words.

  • Randy Kaplan

    Oh, Kurtie, I can’t live without you, you’re a saint.

    Brainless, incompetent troll. Give up. Kill yourself already.

  • Tim V Johnson

    This is possibly the fucking stupidest story that your site has ever posted. Goldschein is an idiot.

  • Anonymous

    Lol, the writer of this shit is a misogynistic idiot. Go work on gay porn. Writing is not for you.

    “Plus, our daughters don’t fuck on film for money”
    No, they do it for free.

  • Kenneth Evan Powell III

    Kosar is a jackass, but I don’t get the need to belittle her daughter to get to him. She does porn? Who gives a shit. If someone wanted to pay me to have sex all the time, I’d probably do it to. But I’d probably get some sort of respect for it because I’m a man. But if you’re a woman and do porn or any other sex-work willingly, then you’re worthless. I don’t get that. Stupid.

    Kosar is a big enough loser to be mocked for his own (lack of) merits. Don’t need to throw his children into the mix.

  • Anonymous

    That makes absolutely no sense. You need a lesson either in logic or English so you can make a coherent argument.

  • Otis

    The point is that someone tried to get Kosar to not be such a big meanie by mentioning that the parents of these precious butterflies might be listening to him talk shit. In this context, he responded that the parents, rather than being offended by the trash talk, would just be embarrassed by how badly the players would be playing. That is why parents were brought up. Because someone else brought up parents. And now out of nowhere, this jackass actually took the time to research Kosar’s offspring’s profession and pass really shitty judgment on this unrelated subject. The point is that the author is juvenile and unprofessional and disrespectful and sexist.

  • Guest

    What a ridiculously puerile article. Your parents should be embarrassed if just for the fact they never taught you two wrongs don’t make a right.

  • Jason

    I would like to meet her, I got a pole in my basement just for her!!! Wow

  • tacohouse

    Based on the fact that you’re on this website.

  • DrDogsDogDoctor

    That’s a fake Twitter account.

  • Anonymous

    and even more interestingly, if no one watched porn, there would be absolutely no industry that could exist.

    all hypocrites writing bs articles about others and trying to claim a self defined higher moral ground

  • Sara Nader

    Bernie Kosar’s daughter is an “actress” the way I’m a power forward in the NBA.

  • thinkaboutit

    Hey Goldschein (what the hell kind of name is that, anyway), you are truly a piece of shit for writing that crap. I’m going to tell you that even tough it’s some time after the fact. Also, maybe I should tell everyone who I saw your wife screwing just the other day. And it wasn’t you, you loser!

  • mmapatc

    says the writer of some second rate sports page. haha who probably knows porn all to well while he writes this crap out of his parents basement

  • Grant Stone

    Lexxie Silver not just repetitive. She’s programmed. It’s a BOT! It’s not a person. And there’s no reason to believe that the girl pictured on that bot page is the person running the account! When a robot says, “I want a hottie to buy me a car,” should we really believe it?

    My guess is, someone has an interest in keeping the fiction alive that “Lexxie Silver” is still a potential or active Porn Star. Maybe it’s the person who controls the “Lexxie Silver” brand. I doubt that is the woman pictured on that twitter page, even if she used to play “Lexxie Silver” in the movies. I know it’s confusing. But don’t trust bots. There are too many of them. And if you are going to feature a bot, make it a smarter one that this. This “Lexxie Silver” is BORING!


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