Remember how strange it was when Jerramy Stevens was arrested on suspicion of domestic assault against fiancee Hope Solo, and then the couple got married shortly thereafter? Well, now the 911 tape from the call that led to the arrest is out, and it does not make things any less confusing.

Because domestic abuse can’t stop true love, Hope Solo and Jerramy Stevens went along and got married anyway.

According to KING TV reporter Chris Daniels, former NFL TE Jerramy Stevens was arrested last night at 3:45 a.m. for domestic assault in Kirland, Washington. The victim was Hope Solo, goalie for the United States women’s soccer team and, according to court documents, Stevens’ fiance.

Jerramy Stevens is a lot of things. But was he carrying pot to give to teammates?